She rambled incessantly about her ex in our first meeting. She “ghosted” me for entire week to then text, ” I reconnected with a crush from high school.” Two wks later, a text to meet for happy hour; not so happy as she cried about the reconnection- no connection. She invited me to meet her and roomie out dancing to ignore and mock me. Fast forward two wks, she liked how I fucked and I was “in”. I left town and she met a friend. The first of two sides appear. I am right 9.9999999 of 10x – wtf. Follow instinct.