I inquired if she ever considered pole for a person to write a story. She replied that is something you would do for a romantic partner. I acknowledged in my ignorance and misogyny. She replied they do not write about me. I said I will not. I do believe I have honored her demand following her request. However.
The exact words are not precise.
P.S. I bet she took a screenshot and sent it to her pole partner. All four are disgusted with my being. Two are secretly turned on. One feels betrayed and used. One can relate, but it keeps demons at bay.